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08 November
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Another great girls’ night out

Hi everyone,

I am one of these people that says I don’t drink. What I mean is I don’t drink a lot, so when I do it only takes a couple of glasses of wine for me to get tipsy (tipsy sounds way better than drunk).

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Last Friday I went out with two of my best friends Jodie and Carly. We always seem to have the most crazy nights out. The best thing about it is, all we want to do is get dolled up, find somewhere that plays good music, have a few cocktails and dance like doughnuts! Well Jodie and I dance like doughnuts while Carly normally watches and laughs at our moves!

I am obviously quite easily pleased because the highlight of my night was coming out of a nice cocktail bar to get a kebab. It is probably the tackiest thing to do but it was comical, three girls all dressed up, standing in the street eating a kebab. I knew I had a long night ahead of me and I was absolutely starving. This is normally something you would do at the end of the night but I have to say I would highly recommend it. I seemed to find a new lease of sober life once I had finished and I was ready for round two. So off we went to JJ Whispers in Crawley to dance our little socks off and have a few more drinks.

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The joke of the night is that I have put on just under a stone in weight, which I am very happy about because I was way to thin before. However, the weight has gone straight to my bum!!! So of course I was shaking it as much as I could, while Jodie was doing the running man next to me… Very uncool but who cares?! Girls’ nights are all about having a laugh with your girlfriends and we most certainly had a lot of that, as you can see from all of the silly pictures below.

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Lastly, the icing on the cake was that I bumped into an old and special friend who I haven’t seen for five years Tommy. Tommy and I lived together in Canary Wharf just before I got pregnant so we had many good times together to reminisce about.

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My one mistake of the whole night was that I decided to text my ex-boyfriend on the way home in the taxi… cringe, cringe, cringe! I had so much fun in the nightclub that I originally met him in and I was desperate to tell him about my night. I didn’t get a response but I am not that surprised. I wish he had sent me something in the morning to ease my embarrassment of drunk texting, but no. Oooops!

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This was the best night’s I have had out in ages and guess what, I didn’t even have a hang over!!! I now swear by the kebab pit stop half way through the night to soak up the alcohol, which is wrong, wrong, wrong but oh so right! ;)

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I am in a very happy place right now, life seems very uncomplicated and that’s just how I like it. What more can I ask for? I have a job, a home, a beautiful little girl who is extremely balanced and I have crazy nights out with my friends every so often – I’m a lucky girl!

Back soon everyone,

Nic x

19 August
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Being friends with Poppy’s dad…

Poppy, Simon and I went to see the Barbie Mariposa film screening this week. It is rare that we do family activities together as Simon lives and plays football up north, but what a special treat for Poppy to be taken out by mummy and daddy together.

Me, Poppy and Simon

Me, Poppy and Simon

My friends are always wanting Simon and I to get back together but we both know it’s never ever going to happen, I think we are more like brother and sister – we can argue one minute (normally when Simon blames me for the traffic jam we are in) and then the next minute we are laughing our heads off and being silly together. So, whilst we might look like a happy little family, we are in fact just two great friends that happen to have made a baby together, come to think of it thats the definition of a perfect happy family isn’t it?!

I love Simon coming to stay with us, he makes me a cup of tea in the morning (which is a winner!) but most of all I love those moments where I can sit back and watch my daughter play so beautifully with her dad. The moments where she is snuggled up to him on the sofa and the moments where she tries to play us off against each other so she can get her own way. As silly as it sounds it’s those teeny little things that I notice that are special to me. I feel lucky that being friends with Poppy’s dad means I get to share moments like this with the person that loves her just as much as I do.

I love seeing poppy and her dad just hanging out together, Poppy was watching Robin Hood here – please excuse the tattoos all over her legs that don’t seem to want to come off!

Simon with Poppy

Simon with Poppy

One day I’m pretty sure Simon will get himself a girlfriend and, of course, I will be swept away by Prince Charming (laughing at myself now for never learning that fairy tales are not real). Whatever happens I know that it will never change the dynamics of our friendship like it did previously because it’s too important for us to show Poppy that, thanks to her, we will always have a very strong bond. I regret pushing Simon out of my life before, I think I was confused about what was right and wrong whilst being in a relationship. I realise now that there is no ‘wrong’, it should always be OK for us to meet up for dinner or day trips and, as long as the potential new partners are always included and never pushed out, I don’t see it ever being a problem. Lets hope its not!

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Nx

06 August
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Girls’ Night Out!

I feel like I have hit the nail on the head guys. I mean this is the first time in a long, long time that I feel like I have a beautiful balance in my life. I am working my little butt off for my two companies and exercising like mad, but also making lovely time for my precious little girl, friends, and family. I really am having a wonderful time, I think it helps that the sun has been shining so much too.

Ellie Crisell and me

Ellie Crisell and me

Last week I went out for my friend Ellie Crissell’s birthday drinks in Battersea. It was so nice to go out with the girls, get dressed up, drink cocktails, dance and get chatted up by boys (ha ha I feel like such a teenager saying that!). I wore a tight dress, which is unlike me because I normally wear floaty girly dresses, but I did feel a little bit sexy. Oh dear, did I say that out loud!

Sipping a delicious cocktail!

Sipping a delicious cocktail!

I feel like a mummy most of the time, so it’s rare that I would say I feel sexy and, as silly as it sounds, it’s good for a woman to feel like a woman and I felt good – we don’t want to be just mum all the time! I don’t think it was all about the tight dress, being around my friends and having a laugh gives me back that bit of me that was missing for a long while.

Carly, me and Jodie

Carly, me and Jodie

What a wonderful night with beautiful friends!

Nic x

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